你从未知晓的最佳性爱技巧

山雾景尖

你经常会将同样的性技巧看了一遍又一遍，并一一记入你的大脑。但是这儿有一些全新的、令人惊喜的性技巧提供给你！

Everyone could always use a really great sex tip, regardless of your skill level. From passionless missionary sex to oral sex that is more paint by numbers that porn star wild, you may need a few tricks of the trade to spice things up. Or maybe things are hot and you want to make them even hotter. What She Said:

无论你的水平如何，每个人都是能够使用一个真正好的性技巧的。从那些情色影星演得传教士般刻板的性爱到口交，你可能需要一些技巧来增加情趣。或者你的情事本就是火热的，你只是想让它更火热。她说：

There are so many sex tips out there when it comes to pleasing your man, but what about you? Below, I offer some sex tips specifically for women to use on themselves.

就取悦你的男人而言，有那么多性技巧摆在那儿，但是你呢？以下，我将特别提供女人们一些性技巧来用在自己身上。

Sex is a mental thing for women, we have to shut out the outside world and ignore our to-do list. You have to silence your inner critic and all those voices in your head. One way to help silence them is to prep your mind for sex. Think sexy thoughts throughout the day. Why not wear sexy lingerie under your normal work clothes. No one has to know what you are wearing under there and that makes it all the more sexy! Another tip is to watch a sexy movie or read some erotica before you get busy with your man. There is such a wide array of porn that is catered to women that you are bound to find something that helps light your fire.

性爱对于女人来说是精神性的，我们不得不将外界剥离，并且消除你内心的谴责声和脑中所有这些声音。而使它们安静下来的一种方法就是准备好性爱意识，一天中都想着一些色情的事情。何不在你普通的工作服下穿件情色内衣，没人知道你贴身穿着什么样的内衣但这能让一切变得更加色情！另一种方法便是在你与你的男人嘿咻前看一部色情电影或读一些色情书。有非常多的色情文学是为迎合女人而作的，也就是说你一定要找到一些有助于点燃你欲火的事物！

Now that you have spent some extra time getting yourself into the mood, the next step is to get it on. My next tip and one of my favorites, is to TAKE CONTROL! Make the first move or show him what you like. In order for him to please you he needs to know what you like. So many women just go through the motions of sex without speaking up or showing their lover what they like. So get on top of him and use him as your own personal sex toy.

既然你已经花了一些时间来让自己进入状态，那我们就进入下一步。我的下一个技巧也是我的兴趣之一就是：控制！主动或者示意他你的喜好。为了让他知道如何取悦你他需要知道你的喜好。太多女人在性爱时只是打酱油，既不大方地说也不示意她们的爱人自己的喜好。所以骑在他的身上，将他当做你私人的性爱玩具来使用吧！

While you are on top, lean forward so your clitoris gets all the delicious contact it needs. While on top you can also control the pace and depth. Make it a game, tell him he can’t come until you have. A woman who can own her sexuality and isn’t afraid to ask for what she wants in bed is the sexiest sex tip of all! What He Said:

当你在上位时，将你的身子探前使你的阴蒂得到它所需的所有美好的触碰。你在上位的同时也能控制性爱的速度和深度。来和他玩个游戏吧，告诉他在你得到高潮前不准释放！对于女人来说，最厉害的性爱技巧就是拥有自己的性爱且不害怕在床上要求她想要的！他说：

The best sex tip I can offer is to look good naked. Working out is great. It boosts your libido, your mood and when you look great naked, you want to be naked more often. It also can help you attract the hottest lovers of your life!

我能提供的最好的性爱就是看着赏心悦目的裸体。因此锻炼是很好的，它能增长你的性欲，你的情绪。而当你的裸体很棒时，你会更多地想要裸身。这也能够使你吸引到最火辣的爱人！

Any kind of exercise will do, at the end of the day it’s what works for you. Yoga is great, because it’s basically porn already. Don’t believe me? Go to a yoga class. There are strippers and porn stars who wear more clothing. And you’ll get all hot and sweaty with sexy people bending over, twisting like pretzels, it’s hot.

任何运动都是有用的，它终会对你有效。瑜伽就非常好，因为它基本就是色情的写照。不相信我？去瑜伽班看看吧。那里有穿得很多的脱衣舞女和色情片影星。和这些性感的人一起俯身，扭身，你将会热到汗湿。

You have to own it too. Sex starts and ends in the mind. If it’s not there to begin with, it won’t happen in your naughty bits. Meditation is good, but also just stand naked in front of your mirror butt ass naked and really get comfortable in your skin. You are hot to someone and someone will want to have hot steamy intercourse, oral sex, anal sex, or whatever the hell else you’re into but first you have to feel good about you. That’s first.

你还要做的就是在脑中描绘你的性爱。如果不这样做，便无法使后续更好地发展。不止冥想是有用的，裸身站在镜子前且让你的身体、肌肤放松也是必要的。当你对某人来说是性感的，那么他便会想要与你进行一场热烈到汗湿的性爱，或口交、肛交，亦或是任何姿势的性爱，但前提就是你一定要自我感觉良好！

Assuming you’ve got that taken care of, let’s get down to the brass tacks. Make your fantasies a reality. You may need to get creative. If you’ve always fantasized about a three way and you’re in a monogamous relationship, try getting a vibrator and using it in your backdoor while you have intercourse with your husband. If you want to be with a girl and you’re afraid or not ready (and you’re a woman) go to a strip club. Get a lap dance. If you’ve always wanted to be in control, buy handcuffs and handcuff your man to the bed. If you want to be dominant, be dominant. If you want to be submissive, be submissive.

假如你已经将这些都做到，那让我们从真实出发，让你的梦想变成现实。你可能需要变得更有创意！如果你身处一夫一妻的关系中并总是幻想着一个？可以试试在与丈夫性交的时候放一个振动器在你的后庭中；如果你是想要和一个女孩性交而且你害怕或者并不打算去脱衣舞俱乐部（你是一个女的），那就跳一段大腿舞吧；如果你喜欢控制，那就买手铐然后将你的男人铐在床上；如果你想要占主导地位，那就支配他；如果你更喜欢服从，那就顺从他。

I’m a big believe that the greatest sex tip is to find a way to have the vacation sex you love in your every day life. You may have to schedule it. Like married people with kids schedule sex or old people schedule their last glass of Ovaltine before the big Matlock Marathon. Just be consistent and be patient.

我非常愿意相信的是，最好的性爱技巧就是你在生活中找到了可以让你享受性爱的性爱方式。你可能会需要好好计划，就像结了婚有了孩子的人们要计划着性交一样。你所要做的就是坚持和耐心！